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Safewords
OJ 6 Sep 16
AAAAAAHHHHH I can't figure out how to frame a post about safewords. They're so nuanced and so critical. So have a tweet storm instead! ^_^
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
So I think the big mistake is looking at them in just the context of a scene between two people, while ignoring their affect on...
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
...the overall kink community as a whole. Someone failing to respect safewords? Word about that will get around. We're a gossipy bunch.
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
(which isn't to say safewords are the ONLY way to establish ones bonafides)
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
And what's this crap about "oh the sub might be trying to weasel out of growing themselves?" (Or what the fuck ever)
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
Just... shut the fuck up with that noise. Kink isn't that important. People change on a day to day basis. Cope.
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
Of course safewords aren't magical spells that make the Bad Things stop. No one expects them to be that. They're a safety net. A last resort
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
Our collective, default stance on safewords needs to be "yes, they are mandatory". We need to be giving our new kinksters these tools.
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
"But my partner and I don't neeeed safewords" Bully for you. Be sure to mention that it took A WHILE to build that level of trust.
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OJ 6 Sep 16
Replying to @tallglassofoj
But like, even IMPLYING that someone is in the wrong for using a safewords is -->DANGEROUS AS FUCK DONT DO THAT EVER<--
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