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Michael Curzi 2. velj
Someone: our thoughts and prayers are with <wherever> Someone else: lololol!!!! thoughts and prayers won't help, you IDIOT!!!1111!! Me: <takes a deep breath...> A community in prayer is complex interpersonal and interactional phenomenon; while atheistic types interpret praying
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @peak_valley_pea
It seems that with this practice your main "focus" is uninvolvement, which is why it might be allowing more contents of consciousness into awareness. Uninvolvement-as-intention takes up far less bandwidth and orients you inwards-outwards, not inwards-inwards.
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @peak_valley_pea
Not sure if I'm forcing it to be quicker via the nature of the practice I'm doing/intention I'm setting, because when I'm doing other practices I notice like 5-10% of what I was able to notice during this last sit.
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Na Ro 1. velj
Holy shit. There's A LOT of stuff cycling through my consciousness in every moment. Craziest, wildest shit along with more mundane memories, judgements, etc. Fascinating and fun to observe, although currently seems to be exhausting to stay in this state for long periods of time.
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Odgovor korisniku/ci @meditationstuff
I think I'm currently going through the beginning of the first scenario. Can confirm, makes things more unstable at the very least.
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Peter🌋📈⛰️🌧️📉Brannen 9. sij
You: This one untested supplement will restore balance to my body Your body:
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Recipe for a good relationship: find someone whose traumas are compatible with yours.
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David R. MacIver 30. sij
I wish people were better at distinguishing "I understand where this person is coming from" from "I think this person is correct". I see way too many "lol can you imagine believing X" posts, and I think if you *can't* imagine it you're probably lacking crucial empathy skills.
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Neeraj K. Agrawal 30. sij
imagine having an inner monologue lmao
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avery 31. sij
most roads lead to nihilism, because intellectuals are losers and spend their time justifying their mediocrity
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selentelechia 29. sij
I love the rationalists for a number of reasons but one is that they've developed a perfect shutdown for people crying that doom is imminent/"listen up sheeple we're all gonna die" which is: "okay! bet."
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Na Ro 29. sij
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
Wow this thread is a fucking gold mine 😍 Ty so much for doing this!
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selentelechia 31. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
19. eventually you find yourself anticipating actions that aren't remotely likely from the other person and since your model is particularly inaccurate wrt conflict, and it's actually impossible to avoid all possible conflicts...
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selentelechia 31. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
18. one major drawback of anticipating and avoiding all possible interpersonal hurts is that your model of the other person begins to diverge dramatically from the reality divergence is inevitable but this is one way it can become insurmountable
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selentelechia 31. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
(2/2) process them immediately as they arise which is strictly better than trying to anticipate all possible ways to hurt one another and sidestep them
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selentelechia 31. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
16. but I've recently discovered a way out of that chinese finger trap if the two sensitive people are willing, relatively secure, and moderately skilled at describing their state to one another, they can take minor mood mismatches, conflicts, frictions and (1/2)
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selentelechia 31. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
15. there's a failure mode between highly sensitive (perceptive of/easily affected by mild mood/tone/body language shifts) people, where they get into spirals of "hurting one another with their feelings," or avoiding saying things that might incite even a mildly negative response
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selentelechia 30. pro
Odgovor korisniku/ci @selentelechia
12. I suspect a lot of the whole "I don't want you to do X when I ask, I want you do notice X needs doing and do it before I ask!" pattern is a plea for your loved ones to *model you more accurately*
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Na Ro 29. sij
The whole thread is great, honestly. Gonna save it for future reference.
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Na Ro 29. sij
Something something my partner
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