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To resolve conflict you must get stronger ❤️💪❤️
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seems v likely. *sigh* off to go get caught by security guards, bye
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i wants it...
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Omg you clown? I've been so intrigued by clown and mime stuff for the longest time! (Not a career comment, I just think that's cool)
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"a restaurant with a dozen flavors of milkshake is no better than a restaurant with one flavor if you're allergic to milk"
true shit
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"Most "normal" people aren't afraid of the consequences of violence (pain) as much as of the violence itself. Fighting itself is bad. The lawyer isn't afraid of getting hurt, he is afraid of there being a fight." -TLP
Feels v relevant
thelastpsychiatrist.com/2012/10/whos_a…
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One thing I do: occasionally trespass for urbex stuff. I'm way more scared of GETTING IN TROUBLE than I am of criminal fines or whatever the fuck
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this pops up in:
- new situations I'm not familiar with
- when I want something other then what's allowed and so "break the rules"
wanting to transition from "worried about getting IN TROUBLE" to "worried about actual consequences of conflict"
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I feel fine about many of the "tasks and responsibilities" of being an adult, but still have trouble with "worrying about getting in trouble"
whats been your experience with this?
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I think learning the context would ruin the joy of this gem twitter.com/ctbeiser/statu…
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Also, progressions progressions progressions.
If you can't jump 5ft, try 4.8, 4.5, 4, just keep lowering until you reach what you can do.
If you can't vault over a thing, see if you can jump onto it and then smoothly jump off
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Asking a lot "how would I get over/around/across that?" and then try your "naive" approach.
If you can get another person, tag with obstacles can be a good way to get you in the mindset
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For technique, tap brothers have some good vids
youtube.com/playlist?list=…
But maybe more important is finding some space with obstacles and getting into an exploratory mindset
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Retweet if you ever wanted the collapse off civilization so that you could climb on more things without getting yelled at twitter.com/averykimball/s…
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Get em twitter.com/averykimball/s…
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This is were I plug parkour
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cheers to slow and hard change 🍻
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"they didn't laugh, shit, I'm not funny"
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"they didn't laugh, huh, I guess I'll workshop this one"
maybe more to the point, how do you not care about what others think of you when they have things you want? (hmmmm.... i feel suspiciously close to something)
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..... but the strawman which I've yet to figure out exactly how it's straw is "what about standup comedy? If I don't care about what people find funny, how do I improve?"
(standup = literally anything else)
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piecing apart "don't worry what others think of you" is hard for me.
tlp has helped me see the narcissistic perils of being ruled by others judgement
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separation of tasks. Some tasks are yours, some are others. This is decided mainly by who bears the brunt of the repercussions. Example, it is a students task to study, not the parents.
big mood: what other people think of you is their task, not yours
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