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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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Global institution builder. ❤️er. Things:
•🧪spiritual consulting
•🧙♂️shamanic support (online/IRL)
•🧘hardcore meditation on-ramp & community
•💩shitposts
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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The TL 2day!
This is like very slightly edgy vanilla sex 101, but generally speaking, ladies:
Opt. A: "Make a fist in my hair at the base of my skull, pin one of my arms at the wrist, pin me with your bodyweight, and...
Opt. B: "Hey, I really need to know you're right here."
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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X years ago I was legit afraid I was going to rip off my leg at the knee
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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would like to RT the pickup lines posthaste
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Imagine, for a moment, what it'd be like, if you knew, with the same certainty as the one you have that you're reading this, that every single impulse, came from the whole of you, taking into account all that you know, as the sum of all the best intentions you have for yourself.
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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i was like en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uplift_(s…
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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going meta is initially less likely to make (perhaps eventually necessary) contact with old/trauma felt content, to reconsolidate/revise/update/heal/mature it. but going meta is sometimes needed to make it safe to get into that old content.
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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something broader kinda fractal/recursive/extrapolative, here; can pay off down to making fool of self or regrettably hurting someone somehow and can still have a way forward. also hopefully they're nice/kind/charitable anyway, ofc. and/but being attractive is itself respectful
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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kinda both
then hesitation/waiting/pausing/querying are maximally purposeful and they can become palpably an expression of confident desire (vs indecision, waffling, low-confidence). then especially don't have to know what's going on, can involve other person, w/ max coolness
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this is the master key to being attractive/sexy even when you're totally out of your depth and you don't know what the fuck is going on 👇👇👇👇#bromystic twitter.com/meditationstuf…
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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oh, *hesitation* can be unattractive if it comes from in-your-head-indecisiveness. good to work thru stuff offline so you felt know what you want under various conditions. then even "hesitation" seems confident because it's about letting something unfold externally vs internally
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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Sometimes can be helpful (and sometimes counterproductive) to ask, is there are more direct or immediate thing? Why can't I just straightforwardly (do/be/have/go after) X, right now?
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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sometimes going meta, for a particular person and issue, is the most productive thing, then circle back around to the concrete. depends on lots of things
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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cc @reasonisfun !
if other people can navigate a thing without meta, then meta can be an indication that something more practical and concrete is covertly blocked, and sometimes going after that can be more productive than going meta. sometimes gotta go meta first, though
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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collaborative inclination towards mutuality tho
mutuality = "the sharing of a feeling, action, or relationship between two or more parties."
everything's potential cringe/try-hard/robotic/scriptable/creepy
everything's a weaponizable call-out
what r people doing/intending+why
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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I think I might see what you're getting at tho
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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I think they can be pretty harmonious?
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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Also generally if they get annoyed bc you’re being careful then don’t apologize and just like take them bc they know what they want and they’ll feel safe stopping you. But, you know, it’s still a mutual thing you’re doing together.
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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SECRET TRICK: feel for “maybe-subliminal micro-resistance tests.” They might lightly resist or be stiff or still to see if you’re acting sensitively. So—sensitively micro be still, wait, move more slowly... They will soften and feel safe(r) because they are safe bc ur sensitive!
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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Also if you’re in your teens & you’re a little crazy & you fuck it up a bit, I guess we’re in a different world than when I was in my teens. But you’re not a monster (usually) & being a good-faith, eye-contact human can make it safe for them to be angry/annoyed/flattered vs else
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Mark (🧘🧪🧙♂️💩❤️)
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If someone was into into something but suddenly isn’t, you’ll ideally know instantly or in seconds because they become very still, or stiff, or something feels suddenly strange, or you just know, or you slow to a crawl and wait patiently or ask, or they say...
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