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Balance Psychologies Oct 11
Prepare to be triggered when the moves on to new supply. Public displays of affection will be loud! The 'Look how happy & normal I am' Mask. You control your response. Do not get sucked into their false narrative. Keep your focus inward. Heal.
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Narcissist Educator Oct 11
A always wants you to feel bad. They beat you down & abuse you to dim who you are. They don't want you to feel good, joy, or have a good life. They are jealous of their own shadows & hateful people! 👺
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Move Through To Thriving Oct 10
What does a want? What do they need? To never be questioned. To never be criticized. To never EXPLAIN. To never CARE. They want pure, 100% acquiescence of ALL behavior. 100% acquiescence to DEMANDS.
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Evelyn M Oct 10
My ex is marrying in a few days. Not for love, not for family - but becuz its the next box to check along the way & to show others that he is not the issue. He is great & happy and married. And he will stay married until gets fed up.
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TimeToRecover74 Oct 11
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Move Through To Thriving Oct 12
Let's talk about CLOSURE. The has one goal & one goal ONLY; to REMOVE your voice about anything & everything YOU have to say that goes against them in ANY way. You will NOT be heard. You will not be validated. YOUR conversation will ANGER the narc.
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TimeToRecover74 Oct 12
This hits home. I wanted to “fix him”. I felt guilty for not knowing how he was and if he was ok. Took lots of therapy sessions to accept that I could NEVER fix him. He was NOT my problem to fix. I do still struggle at times, but I know it’s no longer my job.
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TimeToRecover74 21h
I’d like to believe he’s sorry and he did care, but then again I’d like to believe in unicorns, Santa Claus and the the Easter Bunny. Unfortunately accepting reality isn’t always as nice as fantasy.
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TimeToRecover74 Oct 12
I convinced myself for a long time that I knew the real him and he’d apologize for his part.. he’d feel bad and he’d want me to know. Never happened and he truly believes he really is the victim.
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TimeToRecover74 Oct 11
My story: I loved him He hated me ~End of story
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TimeToRecover74 Oct 8
This is something I still struggle with. I have never understood how anyone could be in someone’s life and then act as if they never were. Let’s add to that.. how does one trash you, treat you poorly, want to destroy you? Maybe it’s better to accept vs “understand”
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EmpowerEmpaths Oct 9
No matter what it may LOOK like from the outside, the is not helping you they are hindering you.
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Joseph the Benedictine Oct 13
Trumpians open your eyes! Trump is not "pro-life" or "chosen by God". He is a malignant who lives only for his own gain. He is incapable of empathy. He lies and gaslights. He attacks others but cannot endure the slightest criticism. He rapes & kills. He is a criminal.
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Dana Arcuri 21h
My sister’s husband called me a coward. In the meanwhile, I am the only one in my dysfunctional family who had the courage to go no contact. I am the only one who stood up to the . I’m the only one who created healthy . Today, I’m grateful for freedom.
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Move Through To Thriving Oct 11
There is no need to 'explain' anything to a . You will NEVER be heard, nor validated. A narc has no capacity to be able to see or hear YOUR side. Trying to communicate or 'convince' is an extreme waste of time. They are INVESTED in their LIES!
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Balance Psychologies Oct 8
A uses 'whoever' to fit their current agenda. They toss them aside surplus to requirement. Pick them up again if required. They will be forever caught in this dysfunctional cycle. You do not have to be...Step off the merry-go-round.
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Move Through To Thriving Oct 12
Let's talk about CLOSURE. Is it really too much to ask for HONESTY? Taking accountability for what was done & said? To OWN UP to your behavior? To ADMIT what crappy things you did to others? Why yes, yes it IS too much to ask. From a . INCAPABLE.
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Balance Psychologies 9h
The taught you that you are not a priority in their life or your own. That is why you have to choose to be a top priority to yourself now. Learn to respect and take care of you, become your own support system.
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SILENT~NOISE 🌹 Oct 14
Closer and closer to getting out of this miserable marriage... Getting paper work ready to fill out..it's finally getting real.... 😍🙌 ....
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Balance Psychologies Oct 13
Choose the pain of short term Loneliness, over the scars of long term . Will you lose someone you loved deeply? Cold hard truth is - yes! Yet, it will be the start of a long but beautiful from the trauma bond to your .
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