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Heidi O'Ferrall✨
In recently learned that my husband has been fucking behind my back for months. I have no idea what announcement he just made because he blocked me.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
I have proof. Explicit conversations and photographs of their relationship, which he extensively lied to me about on many occasions. He was promising me that he was committed to our relationship at the time, and promising her he was breaking up with me.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
He went so far as to blame me for being suspicious and making him "feel like a bad person" by questioning his loyalty. He gaslit me for months, insisting that he had "the bare minimum interactions" with her and "didn't even like her". Meanwhile, THEY WERE HAVING SEX
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
Jared tried very, very hard to make me feel responsible for everything that's gone wrong in our relationship. He technically broke up with me in February, insisting that the only thing wrong with our marriage was me. Insisting that HE had tried to make things work.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
He was unable to confess to his infidelity even when presented with proof. He squirmed in denial until the last minute, getting angry and defensive instead of apologetic. I believe he has compartmentalized his feelings/memories to suppress his guilt. He's VERY convincing.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
I have spent the last year in near isolation, ostracized from Jared's friend group because he made it clear to me that I was not welcome around them even when we were "still together". He had to keep me separate to keep up his lies.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
He told his friends a version of events that omits his infidelity and portrays me as an aggressive and unreasonable person. As though I'm randomly angry and upset all the time, for no reason at all. It's because he's abusing me.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
His statement is nothing more than an attempt to silence me before I can reveal anything. I gave him the opportunity to make a statement about his infidelity before I did. I told him it would be less embarrassing for him if he was honest with his own friends first. He declined.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
I'm honestly shocked that he posted this today because it's so blatantly selfish. This isn't a mutual statement in any way. I did tell him that I wouldn't sign an NDA regarding his behavior. I've suffered enough to sell him my dignity too.
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Crystal Fae ☄️Midgar 8 May 19
Replying to @AtelierHeidi
I am so, so sorry you're going through this.
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Heidi O'Ferrall✨ 9 May 19
Replying to @crystalVfae
Thank you. I know we've never met but I read your public statement about your ex and my heart broke for you. I hope you're in a better place now
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